Are you “foster curious?”
Happening this Monday in Narrowsburg, Foster Curious is an open conversation about foster care in Sullivan County.
Abby Mortensen, a social worker and mom of five through foster care and adoption, and Susan Mendoza, a former foster mom and lifelong advocate, spoke about the gathering and their fostering experience. Their shared experiences and passion for supporting children and families led them to create a space where the community could learn more about the realities of fostering in a casual, welcoming setting.
“Fostering is one of the most powerful ways to strengthen the fabric of a community,” Mendoza said. “Even if you’re not ready to foster yourself, there are countless ways to support the families who do.”
The event is meant for anyone—whether they are exploring the idea of fostering, supporting friends who foster, or simply want to understand the foster care system better. Attendees will hear firsthand accounts of fostering, including the challenges and joys it brings. One of Mendoza’s former foster children, now an adult and active-duty military member, will speak at the event, offering a rare perspective from someone who experienced the system firsthand.
Mortenson addressed a common hesitation she often hears from potential foster parents: “People worry about getting too attached, but that’s exactly what these children need—someone to love them deeply and provide a safe, stable environment, even if only for a time.”
The event is hosted in collaboration with Big Eddy Brewery, whose co-owner, Jake Johnson—a family court lawyer in Monticello—offered strong support. “Family court depends heavily on willing and qualified foster parents,” he said. “They often become the most important figures in a child’s life.”
While there’s no formal registration required, families are encouraged to attend. Childcare will be available on site, provided by the Tustin Youth Commission, and local nonprofits such as DVAA and Chi Hive will be present to offer resources and support.
“There’s no pressure, no expectations,” Mendoza added. “Just real stories from real people—and maybe the spark for someone to take that next step.”
Image: Foster Curious is at the Big Eddy Brewery in Narrowsburg, NY, on May 19, 2025 (Credit: Foster Care Kingston))
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